wrong dependence

WRONG DEPENDENCE
Depending our lives on others’ mercy and help and at the same time we just sit lazily at home is a terrible habit and mistake that we must throw away. The effect of this habit and mistake is too dreadful. Whatever condition that we have, we ourselves must take the responsibilities for our own lives. Some people, even if they understand the result of depending too much on others still enjoy it.
We have of examples in this life about it. How a son is so dependent on this parents’ help. There are children who depend on their parents’ inheritance to go on their lives. There are members of family who always wait and hope for mercies from other family members or their relative. Dependency is the character of laziness. Such a person never tries hard in his life in order to change his faith and life.
A dependent person put his faith on someone else’s hand. He lets other people control his life. He has limited choices in running his own living. He usually cannot handle serious of difficult problems. Most of the time, he will be the victim of this dependence nature.
Therefore, its much better to live independently. Independency must be followed by hard work, courage, faith and high self confidence. Being independent does not mean we refuse help and cooperation. It is actually the main foundation of a mutual understanding and cooperation.
As long as the efforts based on righteousness and honesty, all our wok will be blessed by the Al Mighty. (sumber :Wisdom & success.Andri Wongso )